Abstract: This qualitative study looks at the real-life experiences of the youngest children in the family who are
the breadwinners. This is not what is expected of the "bunso" (youngest) in Filipino households. The
study used narrative analysis to collect detailed experiences from those who took on financial
responsibilities because their parents were sick, retired, or experiencing significant financial
difficulties. Their stories showed personal sacrifice, postponed goals, and emotional isolation, but they
also showed strength, emotional maturity, and the ability to find meaning in life. Some of the main
themes are internal conflict, balancing duty and self, and changing cultural norms. Instead of giving in
to becoming a victim, these people saw their problems as acts of love with a purpose. They didn't just
take on their jobs because they had to; they did it because they wanted to protect and build up their
families. In the end, the study sheds light on the work that these quiet providers do that isn't often
visible. It also adds to conversations about family dynamics, young agency, and cultural norms in the
Philippines. |